Do you ever notice patterns in life? The same relationship problems, the same friendship problems, the same work problems and whilst the individuals or situation is different the outcomes are often the same. We are all on a journey of growth and understanding whether we are aware of it or not. When we are consciously aware of it, we tend to notice more, observe more and reflect more. We are much more likely to learn the lessons of life that we are being presented with. When we are not consciously learning, developing and growing the lessons are much less obvious to us, we are much more likely to repeat past mistakes through unchanged behaviours and life and it’s lessons go on, on repeat. We will keep being given some lessons to learn until we learn them. When we think we have learned what we need to know, we can then get tested. It’s part of the journey, it’s for the benefit of ourselves, even though it often doesn’t feel like it at the time. Become curious with patterns in your life, consider what challenges are being sent to teach you and look for the lesson and the opportunity within it. Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.